Things that I have achieved last year

- Be more reasonable as a person - Having my own goal - Playing osu, writing, drawing, maimai, colorful stage - Playing the guitar - My face - Liferay - Be more secure with myself. I realized that pondering over the bad things in the past makes my mood really bad, and makes me hopeless. Just thinking about things and not doing makes me feel really bad, so I'm not going to think about it unless it's constructive.

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