Be the better version of yourselves.

 Often times, I feel like the need to rush through things, to get things done with the shortest amount of time. This feeling often backfires, and I would always go back to porn because I can't feel passionate about reaching my goal, or I would always feel content and bored, and have a thought like "it's been some time since I have played erotic games, wouldn't hurt to play for a short while."

But this feeling couldn't be trusted. I should distract myself from it by doing other things. And if I ever go back, it's my subconscious thought that leads me in. My conscious thoughts should stop myself from doing it.

But anyways, I'm writing this article because I would like to note down some things that I find helpful from reading a book called "The courage to be hated". 

It says to find your own tempo in progression life. That means to find what makes you happy, while also doing the things that helps you progress towards your goal. Also, the danger in comparing with people. the book also mentions about the feeling of inferiority. 

Many people feel inferior because they see someone better than them, and they feel inferior because they are better than themselves. But the healthier approach of inferiority should come from the result of comparison between people with your ideal version of self.